It’s quite often to see couples looking for threesome today. If you have ever searched the same thing on Google, you would know not only bi couples, many straight couples are also looking to find threesome hookups as well.
So what makes this kind of open relationship work? Members who have conducted threesome sex emphasized that the key is to create rules and sticking to them. The basic threesome rules are

– always tell your partner when you want a threesome
– discuss your bottom line after you decide to have a threesome
– always practice safe sex

Of course, you can discuss other details and set up more specific rules for having threesome sex. For example, one of our member from Philadelphia set their threesome rules like this:
“We can physically touch and have oral sex with the third person, but we can’t kiss, have anal sex, or go on dates with the third person. We attach an emotional value to kissing – it’s special and unique.”
Both he and his partner stick to their threesome rules well, which I believe is fundamental to the success of this bi couple’s open marriage.

But there is still some risk for bi couples looking for threesome since sticking to the rules isn’t always easy. We have heard someone who has broken them multiple times, which has caused conflict. It creates a sense of doubt of whether someone is telling the truth, and will lead to emotional insecurity.

It’s human nature to avoid revisiting feelings of abandonment, but it’s also our nature to seek more fun as well as enjoy sex and life.